Moved Posts

[Mistress Sara]

This section of MDFF was never meant to be a video dumping ground. There are going to be some changes.
As of right now, the only people authorized to post video content will be the moderators, super moderators and administrator. There will be a seven-day suspension to anyone who thinks they are above this restriction.

This will be a far more discussion-oriented forum. Pictures will be welcome because they can illustrate points with out taking away from the conversation.

[Mistress Sara]

This section of MDFF was never meant to be a video dumping ground. There are going to be some changes.
As of right now, the only people authorized to post video content will be the moderators, super moderators and administrator. There will be a seven-day suspension to anyone who thinks they are above this restriction.

This will be a far more discussion-oriented forum. Pictures will be welcome because they can illustrate points with out taking away from the conversation.

[cap]

So, just to be clear about this Ms.Sara, if we do have non-trample content videos, do we seek permission from you to post it? or can we post it in the trample pics forum without it being considered off-topic?

Thanks

[Mistress Sara]

Hi cap,
Until further notice there is a moratorium on videos in this section of MDFF.

This section of MDFF has been over run by videos since it opened up and I want to see more discussion.

Mistress Sara

[DD imprint]

Yeah.
Whilst I like watching those awsome free vids by the likes of 'Tread' etc I get fed up with seeing rows and rows of commercial stuff (eg: Clips4Sale). For one thing I ain't gonna buy it full stop (for several reasons), and so I can't see it anyway, and so its therefore just a waste of time and space to me. Sometimes it practically swamps the board and you gotta dig deep to find something interesting written by a member.

MDFF isn't a retail site so why should there really be any commercial stuff here at all - I think it should all be personal stuff, you know, people to people, home video, and maybe the occaisional freebie from someone who normally sells work, but wants to offer something by way of joining in the community. Definitely nothing for sale or rent. Keep this a community site, like minded people sharing experiences - not vendors looking to hawk their wares. Just my two penneth!!!!!!

[seek]

thank you for all of your efforts

[lildog]

I agree DD. You see an awfull lot of people using 'the community' as a front to sell videos/websites/clips/domination services etc.
That said, one has to be carefull as we have members on board who truly are part of the community in every sense of the word but who also have commercial intrests as well.
Its a real sharp double edged sword.

[scotdenell]

Well, I have something to say,BUT, I'm not going to say it!

It's been 10 years for me here,(YES! I was around when Daddo1 was here and this forum was on Delphi,(remember Excite.com, those were to good o'l days.)

In case everyone does not know who I am, I started one of the biggest Flames ever when we were on Delphi...this is my claim to fame!

I have 45 years in this life, and there is NOTHING I don't have related to my desires in this area!

BDSM/Trample will NEVER DIE, those are to facts of life!

Thank You to everyone who has ever posted ANYTHING here....GOODLUCK TO ALL:)

[neumann]

Very well said scotdenell, thank you.

peace,
neumann

[Thraken]

Sucks that have to do this since one bad apple abused posting vids but that is the way the world works all sorts of rules because once person couldn't be reasonable.

[slaveclub]

Sometimes i post here with pictures from videos we've put on our clips4sale store. I won't do it anymore, but do you have a different forum which allows doing that, or is the idea to completely move away from that on mistressdestiny.com?

[face4wife2sit]

Hi cap,
Until further notice there is a moratorium on videos in this section of MDFF.

This section of MDFF has been over run by videos since it opened up and I want to see more discussion.

Mistress Sara

So, why not do like you do with the facesitting forums? Add two new forums: "Femdom pictures and videos", and "Femdom stories" and rename this forum to "Femdom discussions"?

[hartman]

This will be a far more discussion-oriented forum. Pictures will be welcome because they can illustrate points with out taking away from the conversation.

Does this concern spammers too? i mean......this house cleaning

[jaybootlicker]

Sometimes i post here with pictures from videos we've put on our clips4sale store. I won't do it anymore, but do you have a different forum which allows doing that, or is the idea to completely move away from that on mistressdestiny.com?

You're clearly not a spammer, and I for one have no problem with people posting pics from their clips4sale sites. I've bought many a clip from seeing pictures i've liked etc.

I've also been frequenting the board for over ten years, and remember it on delphi too.

I think its just a matter of personal preference, if there are no pics and just links to pay sites then I would say thats spam. But if there are pics I don't have a problem with. The reality is that without commercial sites there would be next to no content on here in terms of pictures and video clips. i think its when the system is abused that the problems start.

jay

[IhrLakai1]

booooooooooooooooooooooring

[Mistress Sara]

Dd imprint:
"Sometimes it practically swamps the board and you gotta dig deep to find something interesting written by a member."

"I think it should all be personal stuff, you know, people to people, home video, and maybe the occaisional freebie from someone who normally sells work, but wants to offer something by way of joining in the community. Definitely nothing for sale or rent. Keep this a community site, like-minded people sharing experiences - not vendors looking to hawk their wares.


Thank you for that. That is just one of the reasons change is going to be made. That is exactly what I want this section of the forum to be. I don't mind occasional commercial sites dropping off some content in order to put themselves out there so that they may be able to pick up a new customer or two...but the concept of community, like minded people sharing their experiences, telling their real life stories. That is what I want. I want real people who actually go out and play in the kink community to kiss and tell...right here on this section of the forum.

Because I know I'm not the only one who goes out and ties a guy up to the St. Andrews cross and gives him a flogging and tease the hell out of him or cause a huge scene in the middle of a BDSM party that makes heads turn. I do this because I like it. And I certainly can't talk about this around the vanilla folks...they just don't get it.


Scotdenell:
"Well, I have something to say, BUT, I'm not going to say it!"
If you have something to say, please do. Just keep in mind which part of the forum it applies to. I take from your post that what you didn't want to say may seem abrasive. If you'd like, take it to the flame pit, that's what it's for. I have been around for the same amount of time you have. Not trying to steal your thunder but have you always gone by this nickname or have you used another? I guess your post was so vague that it didn't make sense or ring any bells with me. But I'm glad you are enjoying MDFF.



Thraken: Exactly, it does suck, but I'd rather this section shut down than to continue going on like it has. There will be rules just like the other parts of the forum.


Slaveclub: I am going to pin a specific thread for specific purposes. Instead of people making a brand new thread all the time. This way, one does not have to dig deep with in the forum to get to what they are looking for.
Videos and clips will be allowed back at some time, just need to work out some kinks first.


Face4wife2sit: Yes, that would be ideal and what I want to do. We’ll see if the amount of activity will justify something like that.

Hartman: Spammers. Do you mean like the threads where you see about 20-30 rapidshare, mega upload links and people passing by dropping off their links with no link back to this forum? If so, yes there have been many complaints about the drive-by-spammers.

Ihrlakai1: you're just pissed off because you are not allowed to post scat content, so knock it off and be nice.

Mistress Sara

[hartman]

No, actually i meant messages like this:

Hi folks. Check out our new video.
(few low quality photos added)

http://clips4sale.com/store/somenumber

And this certainly isn't discussion-oriented....right?
I once deliberately insulted one of them to see if spammer will response. Of course not. Just because they spam an go.

[Pdxrug]

I like the idea that we have the three sub forums, discussion, stories, pics.

I agree vids should be properly labeled on the thread or post so we know what we are getting, but I do appreciate the posts a couple have made.

More discussion would be great. But Pics and Vids are great too.

[scotdenell]

Hello Mistress Sara.....Right, I was vague on purpose. I probably would not consider what I have to say abrasive. but, I seem to be able to start a fFlame without being so.

On Delphi, I was posting as GoScott4, and became a member in 97'.

I never posted anything "but thank" you comments until this BDSM forum opened.

Everyone who comes here is looking for something, and I think it may have taken me thousands of $$$ to member sites to find what I'm looking for, this forum made it easy, so in kind/kink, I posted clips here from the first time after years.

Sometimes, a picture is worth a thousand words........

What was I looking for? "True" domestic servitude, as well as heartless Whip-Bitches...thank you Leda

Thank you BalkenBratDom and BareFootPrincess:eyebrows: