In the Beginning ...

[Jadis]

Obviously this is of interest with me - especially since I've done "work" (work? hardly - I'd be lying if I said I wasn't having fun with it instead heh) in Training ... as well as being in the midst of a real time - real life - education with my boy ... teaching him the "ropes" (pardon the pun) of BDSM life and experience:

But I digress ...

How were -you- introduced to the lifestyle (both Domme and sub), what steps did you take, how did you learn what your likes - dislikes and limits were - your skills (especially for the Dommes) ... and just general "back in the day" information (I'm having him read your responses - so details on what you like ... WHY you like it ... and how you were introduced/learned - would be wonderful for him to explore).

Thanks darlings xox

[teljenus]

I've been interested in Dom's as long as I can remember. My first real turn-on was looking at the pulp mags. in the 50's when they featured the rare Evil Woman in control of a helpless male. Of course the store-owner didn't take kindly to it & shooed us kids away from the rack. I've found sqeezing, tight bondage, spanking, whipping, face-slapping, panty-gagging, sweat, forced cunninglus and ass eating to be hot. I'm into ass but not scat. I once saw a Sexologist to see what they had to say about s&m, and she said people who had extreme pain in infancy (which I did) was one "cause". Having a disability I never hung around "the boys", so I pretty much hung around the girls. I think being disabled has enhanced my attraction to Dominant Women sexually. I'd like to see "reverse-forced buttake", but they're extremely rare. I'm am surprised too that there's a plethoria of material on scat, but not menstration, panty-liners, tampons, etc. I saw a Dom for a year in 1992, but had to move & have had no contact since (I live in a remote area now). Anyway that's my story, and I think it's a good topic to hear other folk's experiences "in the beginning"!

[Jadis]

I've been interested in Dom's as long as I can remember. My first real turn-on was looking at the pulp mags. in the 50's when they featured the rare Evil Woman in control of a helpless male. Of course the store-owner didn't take kindly to it & shooed us kids away from the rack. I've found sqeezing, tight bondage, spanking, whipping, face-slapping, panty-gagging, sweat, forced cunninglus and ass eating to be hot. I'm into ass but not scat. I once saw a Sexologist to see what they had to say about s&m, and she said people who had extreme pain in infancy (which I did) was one "cause". Having a disability I never hung around "the boys", so I pretty much hung around the girls. I think being disabled has enhanced my attraction to Dominant Women sexually. I'd like to see "reverse-forced buttake", but they're extremely rare. I'm am surprised too that there's a plethoria of material on scat, but not menstration, panty-liners, tampons, etc. I saw a Dom for a year in 1992, but had to move & have had no contact since (I live in a remote area now). Anyway that's my story, and I think it's a good topic to hear other folk's experiences "in the beginning"!

Ooh that's fantastic information - thank you so much! And definitely thought provoking (I guess I never much thought of WHY I was the way I was heh ~_^)

Keep the stories coming - everyone! I enjoy the feed back ... :)