i found it here http://forum.sekswoordenboek.nl/inde...topic=119303.0
i guess it's hot and tempting when it's written from a woman's perspective about owning a human toilet.
Human toilet training
Training a toilet slave is in fact extremely difficult. It takes months and sometimes years to perfect for several reasons:
1st and most obvious is taste and smell. It may take practice for your slave to adequately deal with the taste and smell of human excrement without gagging or throwing up.
Your colon can serve your slave much more than his mouth can comfortably hold. In order for things to remain sanitary, you're slave will need to be able to swallow faster than it comes out of you. This is more difficult than it sounds. In fact, in order for this to even be possible, your slave will need to get used to swallowing your excrement without chewing. Depending on the consistency of your stool, your slave may need to soften it slightly with his tongue, but he will need to do this incredibly fast. A toilet slave compliments a healthy diet - you may need to moderate your protein intake and suppliment fiber in order to maintain a soft enough stool for it.
Your bladder can hold FAR more than your slave's mouth can hold as well. Also, if you use your slave for number 2, you should never have it touch its lips to your vaginal area because of risk of infection. For sanitation, be sure to always have your slave rinse his mouth out well and use mouth wash to kill bacteria before the final cleaning.
The following is a guide that a mistress could follow roughly for training a full-time toilet slave. If you are only interested in training your husband/boy friend/whatever to be used on occasion in this way, you may follow this guide loosely:
Training a full-time toilet slave:
First, let me dispel your thoughts about how horrible this would be to do to someone. Believe it or not, there are thousands of men out there who fantasize almost exclusively about servicing a woman in this way. To take someone in and train them to become what they desire to be is not horrible--you are allowing a man to fulfill his deepest and darkest wishes. Don't believe me? Just do a Google search for "toilet slave" and count how many personal adds you run across from guys wishing to become one.
Alright, so there are guys out there who want to become a toilet, but why would I want to use a man as a toilet? The most common knee-jerk reaction of most women reading about the idea of keeping a full-time toilet slave is usually along the lines of "That's preposterous. Why would anyone want that???" My advice to those women that ask this question is to relax and give the idea some time to sink in. The first time I heard of a man wanting to become a full-time toilet, I thought the idea was preposterous too. Eventually, once I got over my initial disgusted reaction, I slowly began to realize beauty in the idea. There is such a Marquis de Sade appeal to reducing a man to such a pathetic device... There is no fate which is more pathetic than this. To take away all of a mans dignity by transforming him into my full-time personal toilet... it's a pleasure that can't adequately be articulated in words. It's a combination of dark fascination and possibly the most intensely erotic sensation I have ever experienced. In the world of BDSM, a toilet slave represents maximum contrast between inferiority and superiority--just imagine being able to experience this ultimate realization of superiority every day.
Training an effective toilet slave is unfortunately quite a challenge. Even though there are many men out there who fantasize about becoming a woman's toilet, few turn out to become effective at it when given the opportunity. Few can tolerate the taste and even fewer can ingest quickly enough not to make a horrible mess and smell. Training a man to become your toilet is almost always more of an undertaking than initially realized.
Over the years, I've come up with a regime that has proved extremely effective. If followed on a slave, I promise wonderful results. Slave is a keyword here. This guide is for those wishing to create a full-time toilet slave with no other purpose in life other than serving you during your most personal moments. A true slave is a wonderful and difficult thing to find these days. Many who claim to be them either do not truly know what they are claiming to be or quickly change their mind when they realize how much different it is then the fantasy. This guide assumes that you already are lucky enough to have a slave and intend to train him for this role. If you want to train your husband or some other man who is not a slave to become your toilet on a part-time basis, this guide can be followed loosely.
Before you begin, it's very important to make sure you don't allow your slave to masturbate for at least a month. The most effective way to do this is through chastity. I've used several variations from plight://unchastity's../ in the past-these are somewhat pricey, but extremely well built. Most quality chastity devices require a chastity piercing: something every slave should have. I recommend a PA. Another great thing about a Chastity piercing is the fact that they double as excellent end to a restraint or leash.
Second, it's important that your slave be broken in. Use whatever you need to break him. A man's will is broken through an overwhelming sense of helplessness combined with constant stress over a period of time that varies from slave to slave. Detailing the possibilities and techniques for breaking a slave down psychologically is beyond the scope of this document, but here are a few hallmarks: Sleep deprivation, repetition, extended pain sessions, dehydration, and degradation. Be creative! As your slave slowly begins to loose his old sense of self, you will begin to see a profound personality change. The symptoms are different for everyone, but it should be very clear when it begins to happen. Be sure to restrain your slave well enough to both facilitate his sense of helplessness and to keep him from harming you or himself during this process. When your slave is broken, he will become soft enough for the training phases outlined in this document to have dramatic effects on him. Breaking a slave can take anywhere from a couple weeks to a couple of months depending on the effectiveness of the techniques you choose and the strength of your slave's will.
Third, make sure you have a toilet suitable for your slave before you begin. Most mistresses prefer siting in a chair designed for a toilet slave rather than squatting directly on his face. While squatting certainly works, it is much less comfortable than a chair especially if you like to take your time. If you'd rather not buy your own, why not have your slave make you one before you commit him to his fate? It should be comfortable enough to sit on for long periods of time. Even if your slave lacks carpentry skills, a wooden box, couple of holes and a toilet seat on top isn't rocket science. If you want your slave to create a toilet chair, there are many possibilities... I used the following to have mine create a very solid toilet. The total cost was about $60.
16x16 solid wood planters box wood glue (to fill cracks) Metal & wood enamel (for waterproofing) Sand paper (grain depends on wood type of planter box) Toilet seat Screws and screwdriver 1 small coping saw for cutting out the neck 1 larger crosscut or rip saw for cutting the planter's box in half Hinges A couple of boards to use as the lid
The 16x16 planter's box is the only item that may be difficult to find at any local hardware store. You should be able to find one online. Keep in mind that if your goal is to reduce stench via and air tight seal between your slave's mouth and your butt, the hight of the box will need to be reduced accordingly. If contact with your slave's face is undesirable, you may consider looking into rubber open mouth gags available at most websites that sell bondage supplies; however, in my experience slaves have a much harder time when jaw movement is restricted.
Try to resist the urge to laugh at your slave. While the temporary flush of embarrassment that a laugh can bring is lovely to watch, over the long-term it is counterproductive. You should generally avoid showing your slave any emotion accept anger when he disobeys and perhaps an occasional smile when he performs his function exceptionally well. Your slave should never think of itself or the acts he is doing as amusing--your goal is for it to get to the point of feeling completely normal while performing them. Laugh as much as you want when you leave the room, but be sure to bite your lip when he is watching.
This lack of emotion is also an effective tool for you to avoid forming any sort of emotional connection with your toilet. Remember that he gave up his right to be a human when he agreed to become your toilet. This was indeed a choice that he made. Now, as he wished, he has become your utility and should be thought of as such... Talking to him should be as obsurd to you as engaging in a conversation with a normal toilet. With my first toilet slave I made the mistake of occasionally speaking to him. This was a horrible mistake – it made it much harder for not to feel sorry for my slave at times, and it had a much more difficult time accepting its role... Instead of seeing my toilet as an object/utility, I saw a creepy man in my bathroom that likes to eat my shit... Obviously this didn't work out and I ended up disposing of him after several months. it took me a year to realize my mistakes and try again. My current slave I haven't spoken a word to since I transformed him into my toilet 7 years ago. On rare occasions when I need a yes or no reply, it has been trained to "snort" once for "no" and twice for "yes." This arrangement has worked out beautifully. Use whatever dehumanizing techniques that you think will allow you to most effectively not be fooled by the illusion of your toilet's human form!
It's important to remember throughout the process that your slave will undoubtedly want to be released at some point in its transformation (or after). These feelings are a completely normal part of the process. You must plan ahead for these rebellions by keeping your slave heavily restrained at all times and quickly reinforcing the facts of his permanent enslavement that he agreed to with severe punishment. Personally I have a very harsh no-nonsense policy regarding insubordination and reserve the most intense punishment for it: For each time my slave either makes an attempt to escape or dares to ask to be let go, I brand either the word "TOILET", "SLAVE", or "PIG" someplace on his body as a painful and persistent reminder of what he agreed to become. I have purchased single letter branding irons in order to make the experience last the longest; however, depending how squeamish you are, you may opt to create branding irons with the entire words spelled out. There are plenty of websites that offer this service.
I. Phase One: 1 month
The first phase is mostly psychological. It prepares you and your slave mentally for the two stages coming up. Honestly, the most important part of this phase is that you feel comfortable being watched by your slave. If you are sure that you already do, you may shorten this step to a couple of weeks, but I don't recommend skipping it.
On day one, secure your slave in chastity in the bathroom. Give it a bucket to relieve itself. Restrain its hands and legs as much as possible. Do not allow it to groom, wash itself, or brush its teeth.
Tell it what you intend to turn it into. Tell it that soon, this will be its only purpose in life. Use graphic words that will stick in its mind when you describe what you intend to do to it and how it will react.
You will Ask it to acknowledge that it heard you, but under no circumstances allow it to speak... As I mentioned earlier, I have mine snort like a pig twice for "yes" - this is a good opertunity to introduce this new rule to your slave. Once you are done describing your slave's fate and it snorts back to you in acknowledgement, make an effort never to speak to it again. Its fate should be the last thing it hears from your mouth (or from any other person). Don't ever give it anything else to think about.
The only decoration in the room should be a list of rules. Something like the following will do:
[beginning of poster]
"My sole purpose for existing on this planet is to service my mistress as her toilet and bathroom aid. I will cherrish and worship her waist as devine gifts I am unworthy to receive. I am blessed to be given the honor of this service and am eternally grateful to her for allowing me to take on this responsibility. Without which, I would be without purpose and entirely worthless."
I am to never speak.
I am to never cry.
I am to never laugh.
I am to never make eye contact.
I am to always remain quiet.
I am to always keep the bathroom clean.
[end of poster]
Keep the lights off while you are not in the room. Before using the bathroom, wait a couple of minutes for its eyes to adjust before you go. You want to be sure that it sees you in the process: If it's not watching, force it to look without words. As soon as you are done, turn off the lights. The only thing it should see this month is you going to the bathroom, all it should hear is what it will soon be receiving splashing into the water of the toilet.
You must shower, brush your teeth, hair, etc in another bathroom. Be sure to NEVER allow your slave to talk. On the rare occasion that you need a response, phrase your question to get a “yes” or “no” response. Rather than speaking those words have him snort like a pig twice for “yes” and once for “no.”
By the end of this phase, you should have no problem doing your business while your slave is watching. You should continue this training until you feel completely comfortable, no matter how long this takes.
At this stage your slave's stomach will be too weak to ingest your shit on its own. I find that one full can of dog food a day mixed with a good serving of urine and/or shit conditions its stomach quite well for what's coming. I recommend Alpo brand: Hearty Loaf Beef, Bacon & Cheese. Allow your slave to eat at its own pace, but be sure it finishes. Give your it a daily supply of veggies. Some broccoli, carrots, etc... whatever is cheap. Make no effort to prepare them--serve them to it raw and preferably also mixed with your urine/shit.
Keep it dehydrated. Dehydration will keep it in a confused/delirious state of mind, which is good during this phase. It should receive only a couple cups of water per day. If it needs more, it will need to drink its own urine.
Once a day, force your slave to take a shot of apple cyder vinegar. Make him hold in his mouth for 10 minutes before swallowing. If it gags, throws up, or shows any discontent, make it do it again (up to 4 times-at which point beat it instead).
II. Part Two: 1-3 Weeks
After a month, your slave should be ripe enough to begin its second phase of training. This month will get it used to being in close contact with your shit. The smell and taste will take time to get used to, but the vinegar, dog food, and the introduction to your gifts should have conditioned it stomach and gag-reflex suppression abilities enough to keep it down.
This is a particularly difficult month for the trainer because there is no avoiding an awful stench. If necessary, use something to plug your nose while implementing this phase of training.
Begin by taking the chastity device off your slave. Keep its hands restrained behind its back so it is impossible to masturbate. Also stop giving your slave doses of apple cider vinegar and reduce his dog food intake to a quarter can per day. Reduce his veggie intake proportionately as well. This is to ensure that he will be uncomfortably hungry unless it decides to eat what you give it.
You will want to keep your slave in the bath tub for the entire week. Plug the drain so that nothing can escape and do not allow him to leave the tub to use the toilet. Not only will it be in regular contact with your excrement throughout the week, it will have to soak in its own. For the next couple of weeks, instead of using the toilet, use the tub whenever you need to take a shit/piss. I recommend not going on top of it but in easy reach-this will allow it to approach it at its own pace. Remember that in the very near future this will become your slave's primary source of nourishment... It will need to become extraordinarily comfortable in its presence.
Once you finish, force it to lean over and shove his nose and face into your excrement. Ask it to pick some of it up with his mouth and keep it in for several minutes and swallow some. If it doesn't gross you out, I recommend getting some latex gloves, and using them to smear it thoroughly over its face--including its mouth. It's a good idea (but not critical) that it has an erection during this process. If it doesn't have a hard on, you may help it along with some gentle friction using a toilet brush or plunger (DON'T use your hands). Make sure to NOT allow it to ejaculate. It is in this way that your slave begins his sexual reprogramming. It is your eventual and inevitable goal to get your slave to the point of only being able to become aroused while in the presence of your shit.
Another important part of this phase is that your slave stay ungroomed and unwashed. During this period, it should be under constant influence of the smell, taste, and feel. Make sure to get it deep into its hair--if your slave has a beard and mustache, be sure to get plenty into it as well. It will have his hands restrained behind its back and will be unable to wipe it out. At least in the beginning, avoid actually getting shit up its nose because this will restrict its ability to smell and taste.
Be sure to turn off the lights when you are finished. If you ever catch your slave in the process of, or find evidence that he released his load, be sure to punish it so severely that it will never think of doing so again. Denial is extremely important because it keeps its mind focused and in a state that makes the process much easier.
Each time you urinate, have your slave drink it (do not make contact with his mouth since its mouth has been in contact with excrement and not cleaned, it is not safe). If you can't comfortably do so when your slave is in the tub, urinate into a water bottle and squeeze it into its mouth. Force it to drink it all. If it spills any, whip him moderately. I recommend using something you can afford to get rid of after the week (such as a flexible stick or a wire close hanger), since your slave is not allowed to clean itself. Its water intake should only be only 1 cups a day + your urine so that it is forced to drink what it is soaking in if it is thirsty.
Always use toilet paper when you are done during this phase. Have your slave eat it when you are ready to dispose. Toilet paper perfectly safe for it to eat in reasonable quantities.
Lastly, here's a small piece of advice to use on a beginning toilet slave. If it's still having trouble swallowing either your urine and/or excrement after the first week, you may help him by shoving shit deep into its nose. Use your latex gloves and cram enough so that he will not be able to breath out of it. This will restrict its ability to taste what you are giving it and will make things MUCH easier for it. If you want, don't allow it to blow his nose and let it dry up deep inside--this will take weeks to get out completely and somewhat amusing/fun to do.
III. Phase 3 Part 1 of 2: 3 months to a year
By now, your slave should be almost ready. During this phase you will train it to eat your shit very quickly--quickly enough that he should be able to swallow what you give it faster than you give it to him. Your slave will need to get used to swallowing your shit without chewing it in order for this to be possible--something that takes all toilet slaves some time to perfect. Some use their tongues to soften it slightly before swallowing. The amount of time required by slaves to perfect this important technique varies wildly from slave to slave. I was really lucky with my last slave – it only took it a month to perfect this. In extreme cases, it can take months before a slave can ingest a good size stool very quickly consistently (the worst case I've personally run across was 6 months, but have heard of cases taking up to a year). Eventually after enough beatings and practice, your slave will get it. Don't give up on it!
Hygiene will be another important part of this final stage. Begin the week by forcing your slave to take a shower, brush its teeth, floss, and use mouth wash. You should force him to clean his teeth and mouth after every use. It will also be required to groom itself to your specifications; however, I strongly recommend keeping it naked and completely hairless. Having it dress up as a man will reinforce bad habits of thinking of himself as a human. Hairstyles have the same counterproductive effect and may actually begin to reverse the transformation over time... Some mistresses enjoy forcing it to dress and act feminine... Personally, this not only turns me off, but I also feel it's completely inappropriate. It's obsurd to have a toilet in any form of human clothing. Whatever you do, be sure to keep its feet and hands restrained at all times.
For this phase, you should go number 2 directly into it's mouth. Have it lie on his back in the tub with his feet in the air. Sit over the side of the tub, so your butt is roughly 4 inches from his mouth and legs spread with your knees roughly 12 inches apart (sit on a towel or pillow for comfort). Have him hold a bowl in one hand to collect any urine that spills during the process. This will take some coordination. The goal here for the slave is to keep up with you and not spill anything.
All toilet slaves find this phase the most difficult of the 4 phases. Be sure that you have given you slave stools of a variety of different consistencies. I recommend alternating between a high and low protein diet. If you have to, use stool softeners-this is not recommended though for more than a couple times a month. Softer stools tend to have a more intense flavor and smell and may cause your slave to throw up or gag the first few experiences; however, softer stools are much easier to swallow quickly. If your slave continues to struggle for more than a couple of months, you may want to try using gag reflex suppressors. I recommend not allowing your slave the pleasure of cleaning you until it has earned the right by being able to ingest quickly without gagging.
Occasionally, if your slave has done a particularly good job, reward him by allowing him to massage his prostate with an anal toy (found in any sex shop). This will allow him a degree of pleasure and release without being released from chastity. Have him immediately eat his cum, wash the toy, and lock it away. It's important to allow him to do this once every few weeks or so to keep its prostate healthy.
Given the absence of nightly erections your slave's penis will begin to permanently and continuously reduce in size (length and girth). Eventually, it will be too small to ever please a woman, which is an important physical goal. To help facilitate this transformation, make sure to use a chastity device that gives absolutely no room to grow in width or length. As its dick shrinks, you will want to upgrade your chastity devise to a smaller size. Possibly once every 6 months to a year.
III. Phase 3 Part 2 of 2: Cleaning (1 day to a week)
Some mistresses hate the idea of any physical contact with their slave and prefer that it keep a pile of freashly hand washed white towels slightly damp with warm water. I (and most other mistresses) believe there is absolutely nothing like the sensation of having your ass cleaned by a slave's tongue.
Here's how I like to have this doen:
Your slave should thoroughly clean its mouth before this process. I always make my slave wash his mouth 5 times with soapy water and 30 seconds with mouth wash before this step-be sure that your slave does this very quickly-He shouldn't take longer than a minute to prepare his mouth for your ass. Once your slave's mouth is clean, instruct it not to let its tongue wander far from your hole. It's extremely important that its tongue stay far away from your vaginal region to avoid infections.
Have your slave hold a glass of water in its hand and cup its lips around your hole and begin by moving its tongue up and down to clean the surface. its tongue should feel cool with fresh water from rinsing. Then its tongue should enter your hole approximately 1 inch and make small circular movements. Its tongue should stay in for about 2 seconds, then retract and enter again. This should happen about 3 times. It is to then wash It's mouth out with cool water and repeat the process until it is sure it's perfectly clean. Once squeaky clean, your slave will gently dab you dry with a clean towel.
By the end of phase 3, you should notice that your slave is beginning to enjoy itself more than previous phases. It will start to crave these intimate moments with his mistress and anxiously wait for them throughout the day.
IV. Phase 4: The final stage
Ah, the final stage. Your slave is finely ready. Test out your slave to see how well he performs. The next time you go number 2, have your slave close his lips around your ass hole and not let any air slip by while ingesting your gift. This is the moment that you've worked so hard to attain. Relax and enjoy it.
Once tested successfully several times, it's time to start using your slave outside of the tub. Most western cultured women prefer the comfort of a toilet designed for a toilet slave (see notes about this above), but most Asian mistresses I know, prefer to squat directly above or on top of their slaves head. Experiment and decide what works best for you.
Lastly: Your slave is an investment of your valuable time. Like any valuable possession, you want it to last a long time. Therefore, continued maintenance of your slave is important.
Generally, if you and your toilet slave are healthy, the daily ingestion of your stools should not lead to any serious health problems as long as you supplement it appropriately. It is certainly not necessary or encouraged to prepare anything fancy for your slave. Make sure that it receives plenty of fiber to aid in his processing of abnormally high amounts of cellulose. Broccoli, whole grain breads, dried fruits, carrots, cabbage, etc are all great examples. A couple of nightly multiple vitamins is also a good idea. My toilet has been ingesting every ounce of my shit for the past 7 years and shows absolutely no signs of declined health. I expect it to last 20 more (at least)!
Once every 6 months, have your slave remove and clean his chastity device and penis. You will also need to train it to milk itself once a week or so in order to keep its prostate healthy. A cheap curved anal toy can be used for this (as mentioned previously). Eventually, after being locked in chastity for over a year, you should see a noticeable decrease in size of his erection. Take a picture of it and hang it on the wall next to another picture of a real man's erect penis as a constant reminder that he is of no other use to a woman. My current toilet's penis measured 7.5 inches long when I first transformed him into my toilet. Now, after 7 years its penis is about the size of a newborn baby's and measured only 3 inches long at full erection the last time I measured (about 7 months ago).
Exercise is also important. As much as I'd love to just keep my slave bound indefinitely to my toilet, this is unfortunately not a realistic long-term plan. Regular movement and exercise is important to prevent bed sores, atrophy, and to keep its muscles flexible. A daily routine of sit-ups, push-ups, and running in place will keep it in reasonable shape to continue his function.
I hope this guide serves you well in your toilet-slave training. Be sure whomever you begin this training with is aware and consenting of his fate (at least in the beginning ;-)). There are plenty of guys out there to choose from...