In the rules. (12) The fetish Forums are designated for the enjoyment of people who want to discuss their interests in an environment that is relaxed and friendly. If you get into an argument there take it to the Flame Pit. That may be how it was designed and use to be but now it’s more a commercial site and we’ve lost some major players because of it. Now there are some on here that think they are the king shit and have polluted this forum. Sometimes it sounds as if the moderators where paid off or maybe they are the moderators under a different name who knows. (18) Since everyone and their brother seems to be posting spams for their new sites around here, the following Rule is in place : If there is no link back to http://www.mistressdestiny.com/forums/ on your site, do not bother to advertise your site here. That’s a self-serving loophole creating a HUGE gray area to let commercial sites run amuck. Paybacks, I’m sure. (19) To that end, moderators are granted a certain degree of latitude in regulating member activities on the Forums, and this latitude is not restricted to the set of written Rules. Understanding that no person has perfect judgment, MDFF welcomes discussions, critiques and criticisms of moderator, super moderator and administrator actions. Another self-serving, disclaimer creating a gray loophole for the unexplained favoritism. Which leads us back to: (5) Any complaining will be cheerfully ignored. I’m willing to bet that any suggestion put forth that might touch a nerve will be treated as a complaint and ignored. AND who picks what sites get put on the Top and right side? More payout.