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Hi Everyone,
I just recently found this site and am very amused to see this wonderful banter about " should he have a shirt on, disrespectful" blah blah blah. I must thank a million ways from heaven to Vinyl Queen, whom I consider to be the first lady of trample, for her support and understanding.
The foot and trample fetish is still pretty much a frowned upon act here in America, so I have been very careful about my exposure. A am almost 49 and have been trampled since before puberty. You learn a few things about it and about people.
Also, VQ is correct in her assertion that I own a business that families come to and have to keep some kind of integrity should one of the juniors find there way to one of my pics on the internet. Though it is not porn, my younger students might be uncomfortable seeing their guitar guru being walked on and having fun, so I keep it clean. It is my hope that by being upfront and honest, and in a respectful way show being trampled, with caution, is fun and enjoyable for both parties, the general vanilla public will come to accept this bahavior as odd but acceptable between consenting adults. As far as my mouth running a mile a minute, (hehehe, so sorry) well, I would love to just lie there and enjoy being in my own little trampled space beneeth you lovely ladies, mouth open in ecstasy, eyes glazed over in delight and worship...that is really great...but these shoots I have done are going to be seen by many vanilla folks, so if I am communicating with the woman participating, at the very least she is not alone; we are actively involved with each other. Few moments are as erotic and intruiging to me as looking deeply into a womans eyes while she sinks her body weight down onto me with a delicious pair of Ferragamos or Jimmy Choo's. I shudder in delight at the mear thought.
I guess my thinking is that with a bit of personal visual and verbal contact, we seem more normal while participation in the act of trample so that the average man, when busted by his straight wife with one of these videos, see's at least a dialog between the two in the vid, not some self satisfying guy just getting off in sado/masochism land. Not that it's bad, because I love that too. Mr. Stryder, you amaze me, I would love to participate in one of your videos and be hammerd the way you do, you are truly impressive, but I could not do it nearly naked on film because of the reasons I stated above. I do not either wear a pad, but as I have a mild psoriasis, if my skin gets too damaged, it can quickly become a problem. So the shirt provides some protection, and I can be trampled under heels FOR HOURS!
Please remember, I am putting my face and career on the line for the trample fetish world because it would be nicer for all of us, me included, to be able to converse freely about it anywhere. Mistress Destiny, Rudy, Cucciolo, Stryder, CC Dude, Steve Savage, VQ, all the women models; everyone who has had his or her face in a trample image has my respect and admiration...and I thank you for the support and encouragement you have given me.
National TV is a big thing. Several of my coworkers and customers (family too) have seen it and asked, with a wink and a smile "what made you want to do that?", and I get to give them 100 answers, all of them correct and true! Life is great, so thank you all just for being here, in trample land. It will be fun getting to know you. We are the lucky ones!
Very sincerely,
Davetone
 
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Davetone,
Very well said. It amazes me how sexually ignorant people can be. Foot fetishism, though known to be the most common fetish, draws some very rude coments from the 'vanilla public'. Women have called me a variety of things, over the years, all of which paint a picture of some kind of freak. Is our country that far behind in its thinking?? Foot fetishism has been around forever, and people know it exists!! Why do people feel so compelled to bash fetishists? I've said it in the past...prior to the internet, and a few risque magazines, I thought I was the only guy in the world that got off on being walked on, and worshipping female feet! How can we educate people (general public) that walk thru life with blinders on?? Missionary sex does nothing for me. And people accepted the Kama Sutra years ago!! Our sexual revolution of the 70's should've included fetishism, right? I hate feeling like Quasimoto when I tell someone about my fetishes!! There has to be a solution...somewhere!!

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I remember feeeling the same way..I had no idea in the world that others enjoyed being trampled too.I have always had the desire to be trampled..as far back as I can remember..It's always been about female feet.lol I use to hide under things to get my friends mom to step on me .. ha ha I have to be careful with my trample adventures,I am in the public eye in my area.I have alot of success meeting friends from the net to trample me.I don't use the word fetish..I think the words freaks alot of vanilla people out.I explain to them exactly what I like & tell them it a cool challenge to see what I can endure..I just try to stay away from the word fetish.
 

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I agree guys, this is a difficult area. And unfortunatly we as a sociaty are not as advanced as the Asian countries 3000 years ago; Kama Sutra is a great example. As a 21st Century society we need to be much more forgiving to people who are unique, to those with differances. We all have out likes and dislikes. I do believe that the religios community has a bit to do with the condemnation of sexual individuality, because it frightens them. Well, that's their loss, because we are all very kind and forgiving people. As we wish to be accepted, we also accept.
So, as a fetish group, it is up to us to help those unaware to see us as normal, healthy, happy people; we just like being trampled!
 
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Try living in the Bible Belt.You mention fetish,they freak out,even though some of them would love to try it..they still won't because of what everyone else around here thinks..I had a private trample adventures group.I have about 50 members.The ladies can get on there & tell how much fun they had trampling me.I have alo of success that way.Once they see others have tried it & enjoyed it.They are alittle more relaxed about it.
 
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Hi,

In my experience, I have found that it is normally a male friend that will freak out if I was to say I was into woman's feet. I had a close friend to whom I told about my fetish and it weirded him out for a couple of months...friends again now....we just don't mention it. Other guys I mentioned it to were cool and fine about...that was genuinely my only negative experience.
But every girl....and there have been my share...that I have gone out with has walked or stood on me, only 1 exception (which was a bit hard as we went out for nearly 2 years) and many female friends have also.

As far as "vanilla" sites I think most are becoming much more accepting.....for example a pure celebrity pics site that I frequent had been getting an increasing number of requests for celebrity feet ( female ofcourse) and so after abit one guy pipes up that the whole "feet" thing was freaky..and that it should be either banned or moved to it's own section....hehehe....the amount of abuse he got was unbelieveable and super harsh. The thread got locked, all the moderators waded in and he basically got branded a bigot and told to be more tolerant or leave....I thought it was funny.....but properly done.

Anyway, so in my experience the whole fetish thing gets a generally positive spin......maybe I have just been lucky.

Oh one last thing...big freaking deal if you didn't take off your shirt.


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I'm not saying I haven't had my share of the good life, having been trampled by many, many women over the years, but there's still a negativity that envelopes our fetish!! By 'normal standards' we're labeled as "deviants" because we enjoy something that's not "sexually normal". I have friends, both male & female, that know about my fetishes, and my "group" on msn, yet they accept me for me!! A couple of my buddies even scope out womens feet to point out to me when we're in crowded bars, etc. And most of my female friends (or my wifes friends) participate in trampling me, or sitting on me! Hell, I just got trampled good 20 minutes ago by my wife's best friend Trini!! She's the one that thinks it's disgusting, but she enjoys cracking my back, and often sits her lovely butt on my chest if I'm lying on the couch, just to tease me. She's even taken to stepping on my cheek to crack my neck in either direction, but when I tried to put her sweaty foot square on my upturned face she got all grossed out about it!!

We need to find a solution!!
 
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Deviant....yep sure....but I kinda like that.

It seem's we are far from the most deviant though on the top forty of outlandish behaviour......for some reason the group that gets most picked on are those with a fetish for armpits.:eek:
 

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Hey IWKTWOM, and I hope she does!
Thanks for the encouraging post. In my own personal private space with a woman I am close to, if she's ok with it, yeah, I can take my shirt off, and we'll have fun and include some trampling in our otherwise expansive array of sexual pleasures and explorations. I do indeed love to feel the heel, the sole of her shoe, the texture, or it all, as well as her warm bare foot sink inot my body. All are wonderful. But for me, bare is personal, and I want to be able to be in public, be recognized by a woman like "Hey Davetone, aren't you the trample guy, can I trample you right now?", and be comfortable lieing down anywhere we won't impeed traffic and get stepped on. How cool would that be? By separationg the hardcore trample (which I also love, having been under 19 girls at one tome) from the softcore mild trample with clothes on and behaving nice, we can do it anywhere and not get arrested for lewd and lacivious behavior.
Next week there will be a trample party in San Francisco, contact www.FootNight.com for details. It is a wonderful, discreet event. Be nice, no sex, have feet. Ladies, I encourage you to join us as you will be adored as never before in your life, really. OK, friends, I'm off for now....keep me posted of any new kewl trample news!
Davetone in Sacramento
 
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Interesting thread here.

It is sad that many see our interest as "bad". At this point i take a stand and educate the accuser. Please note, that if we can't take a stand defending our interest, then we give them all the more reason to "attack" us.
For whatever reason the accuser has, some will think that walking on another is weird. Of course a little reminder of this long practiced tradition in the orient definately seems to make them pause, if for no other reason than to think of their 2nd plan of attack.
Normally the word fetish comes up quickly as a description of our interest. This is an easy one to defend, since the dictionary says if one has a fetish, then the object HAS to be present in order to climax. Well, duh, that is not the overwhelming case with the large foot loving community, so it can easily fall into the category of foreplay or just good clean fun. By the way, many women LOVE foot massages; so what's the difference in using our mouths instead of hands for this, just like using one's mouth in place of hands for other sensitive spots of Her's. :)
Also, we all know there are guys who among themselves have talked about themselves as being an assman or boobman etc. Each has his own areas of main interest. This can be applied to anything such as: face, long legs, great voice, hair, ..you name it; and of course the feet guys. What's the difference i ask, to each his own.
Then there are the TV documentaries discussing the intimacies of sex and attraction. There are pheremones in women's feet that turn guys on. There are pheremones from guys' armpits that can turn on women. I already knew of the first one, enjoying ladies' feet; but i didn't know about the latter, so i learned something from that. And also, i mention that feet guys aren't always interested in every foot that comes along, just like the other guys wouldn't be interested in EVERY women's breasts, butts, face, legs, etc.

Now i live in the Bible belt and always attended church regularly. I know that many church people can and do teach their own personal interests and such, claiming it to be scriptual. That was so wrong, so now i ask them to back it up with verses. (It's so easy to put them "on the spot") Unfortunately churches are an easy place for wimps to hide, not saying they all are. I remind THEM that the Bible mentions that the bedroom is undefiled in marriage. SO how can trampling be wrong?.....good grief! Of course they use the words deviant and not normal. That is their copout excuse, which almost derails the whole conversation. I had that thrown at me just this week from someone in my class while we were out eating together. Of course i had to "educate" this adult(female) about whose to say what is normal. Again a quick reminder of the previous things was mentioned.

These previous statements are a few good points for starters. We should be able to intelligently defend against others' false accusations.
As we understand, their accusations are made in ignorance. If we appear too shy to defend our interests, then it could appear that we have no defense.
By the way, you never know what person in the group just might speak up agreeing with some of your points.
One more thing, everyone has a kink, and the foot interest is the MOST COMMON of all.

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Just think of all the women who get and love pedicures......hmmm
 
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Hi Throwrug1,
Absolutly correct. People often will attack or put in the spotlight something or someone they fear out of ignorance. The fact that the foor lover has to "defend" onself at times is sad, but not, as you mentioned impossible. I think your ideas of being positive and assertive are right on. I have had many conversations with women and with other guys, and am totally up front about it. Often they are surprised by my openess and a little jealous of how the ladies warm up to the fact that I would even notict their feet or shoes enough to look at them directly and give them a compliment they didn't expect.
Also, as you mention, being trampled does not mean having an orgasm, so while there is sexual energy there, there is no sex, any more that a professional massage has sexual energy with no sex. So trampling is a form of foreplay of just play, and it is also a trust game. Many of us like to be trampled very extreemly, heels hard and fast. Being trampled by a particurlaly large woman you don't know very well could be dangerous, especiall if she gets too wound up on venting her frustrations with men on you. Now, I had a moment like that, and yes, it was a rush, but I do remember realizing that she could really hurt me badly if I wasn't careful. I really want to live to be trampled again and have no interest in expalining to the ER tech why my ribs are broken or my lung punctured!
Perhaps we need a more public forum, to really see what the worlds women think about it, like Morry Povick or Opra...let the ladies try it out and have a real survey, write about our findings. Let the tabloids have a spin with it. What do you all think of that idea?
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Davetone,

I like the points you made in your post. Yes, it is amazing how many women like our compliments about their feet. They don't JUST get the pedicure because it feels good, they like for their feet to look good, and it is a nice surprise for her when a guy compliments them. It's easier and usually safer to compliment them on their shoes, but a successful compliment on their nice feet is sort of a connection i feel.
Thanks for adding the comment about massage having sexual energy but no sex, just like a good trampling. I hadn't thought of that before...excellent example! (and how many people LOVE massages??? good point)
I love high heel trampling too, my fav, maybe because it is the harder one to get, since most women are more comfortable with barefoot. I love multi-trampling in heels :) By the way, i have been thinking of prepared excuses too if a heel breaks a bone or something haha.

Concerning your ideas of some trampling on a talk show and then letting women answer a survey is quite an interesting idea for several reasons.
There is some energy when there are a number of women in the trampling scene. Women are more apt to trample if they see others doing it first. Maybe lead off with a trampling friend of yours who might eventually do a challenging scene with you there so the others will feel comfortable with some easy trampling (just stepping around).
Then the women could respond to a survey anonymously; this would probably bring out the more truthful answers, which we know would include some who say...."gee, this is kinda cool and was really no problem".
Also, it would appear to resemble the more palatable image of a massage, more than a porn scene.
I think your idea is very legitimate. Over the years i have seen where a talk show had a dominatrix on with Her sub and they acted out some things. One was on Phil Donahue 20 years ago, on infantilsim. If that could be tolerated on TV then, then trampling certainly can be today. The discussion with the host can cover the topics we have listed already, and that would be a good lead in to the women from the audience volunteering to trample. Maybe have a few lady trampler friends in the audience to lead the way for the other women.
This was a slightly hurried response, but it covers my points fairly well.

TV talk shows are always looking for new different interesting topics for their shows. Trampling hasn't been done to my knowledge and is definately not risque. Plus the feet interest is the number one kink around. (Licking feet might be too much for some viewers, but the trampling is ok, geez we have seen numerous guys lay down on nails or crushed glass to have a lovely lady walk on them.
The talk show could just delegate a portion of a multi-topic show to trampling, or make it a part of the entire show of interesting kinks.

Well, there is my two cents for now.

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P.S. I am very near your age too, 46 here
 
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One reason Foot fetishists get a bad rap is because there has been a number of high profile Serial Killers over the years that were foot fetishists (see Richard Ramirez etc) and alot of the time their fetish is blown out of proportion to make that seem like a main reason as to why they do what they do. Just the other day i was watching the crime channel and an ad came on for a doco on the recent cannibal killer Armin Mewes, the ad came on with the writing "I want to eat your feet" on the screen, so basically right away it made it seem like a foot fetishist killer. it really annoyed me to be honest but what can you do. Over the years i have met many girls that when you talk about feet to them the first thing they say is "ew only serial killers have a foot fetish" which is unbelievably naive to say. Of course i usually argue the point and make sure they realise how dumb that sounds. Anyways, that was one thing i;'ve found that has always given it a bad name. I dunno how many of you guys have had similar things said to you.
 

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Hey ausguy25,
True about that stereotyping, but that happens in all crimes, so the fetishist must roll with the punches. I have always felt that approacing this subject with kindness and warmth, with patience towards those who do not understand, will do us well far better than averting the eyes, stammering at ridicule or any other display of the feeling that we should feel somehow ashamed. In actuality I feel blessed because the desire to be trampled by a woman is so joyful, combined with my general passion for life (the sunset and sunrise, good food, lovemaking, excellent music, close friends) that the ebulance rubsoff on those around me (I hope). If there is bad luch in the news, there will also be a good story too. It is the natural balance of things.
Any moment you are in the company of a charming lady and you wish to feel her on you, remember, she is just is interested in laughter,friendship and feeling at ease as you are. This will be new territory. Put her in the driver seat; just think of the increadable investment women have in heels, or pedicures? Who better than to appreciate their hard work and efforts by rewarding them with some respect, adoration, foot kissing and massage, than us, the foot guys?
Good night, my friends!
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Please do be careful!

Morry Povick and the tabloids would want nothing more than to portray as as freaks and monsters. They would surely try to rip us to shreads. Opra , on the other hand, would be more likely to be open minded to the discussion of this topic, Also, most of her viewers are women.
 

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So, comrads, anyone have any ideas on how to best present our case to the show, and in what light? As the ancient undisscussed fetish, new new trend in trample sweeping the world? I need some ideas for a short, 300 words or less, letter to the Oprah show....see what they think. Then we need contact people; specifically those of you on this site willing to go on national television and discuss openly and with intellegence, what is is to grow up with a passion for being trampled by women.
OK,,,,go!
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This thread has really developed into something potentially big. I wish I could help out but it might not be the best thing for my job to appear on the show.
But i can contribute in the forum. "Ancient undiscussed fetish" as you mentioned is a good opening description.
Wonder where the chivalrous act of a guy laying down his coat over a puddle for a lady to walk over, came from? ...probably from a foot/trample lover.
I know we have some experts in the forum who continually find romantic episodes from many movies involving feet. These clips could be used as proof of existence/acceptance of this enjoyment.
It might be important to discuss the difference between a fetish and our particular enjoyment(kink), since the word fetish has a negative implication. Get that point cleared up before moving on towards this particular enjoyment that some people have, men AND women.
This is not just a BDSM enjoyment, since many have not ever visited BDSM groups.
Mention that over 20% of guys admit to enjoying female feet, and of course it doesn't mean that a guy loves each and every foot that passes by.
Pedicures are enjoyed by women who generally like showing their feet, some of whom love seeing guys noticing their feet.
Of course the pheremone issue could be brought up. (from a documentary about the sexes.)
There are probably more supporting points to make here, but these first few points have been suggested to break the ice so to speak, and make the upcoming discussion more acceptable.

Many of the guys who enjoy women's feet are into trampling for a number of reasons and it isn't the most easily explained interest. From a massage to a Dominant act, guys enjoy it, whether barefeet, flat shoes or stilettos.
No more need to elaberate on this in a trample forum :)

After the discussion, a demonstration trample could take place on stage, as was suggested by Davetone earlier i think. Then maybe volunteers from the audience could participate, and maybe even some guys from the audience could be part of the "Red Carpet" for the ladies.
Hopefully the demonstration trample would eliminate any concerns before asking the audience to participate. If it would help to start things, have some of our types in the audience, especially a couple of high heeled women to walk on the guys.

Afterwards have the women take an anonymous survey of the trampling. Maybe some questions like: Did you feel comfortable with it by the end? Was there a powerful feeling you had during the trampling? If your significant other requested this, would you now be more open to it? How aggressive could you become? etc etc


Hopefully these suggestions are good for opening the discussion here posed by Davetone.
Part one was to introduce it in a way that seemed normal and respectful (to be the ground the lady walks on), and not seem weird to others.
Part two would be the actual tramplings on stage, followed by the survey.

The conclusion would be the survey results and where ever that would lead.


throwrug

P.S. hopefully other forum members can build on this and make it even better :)